Read & Reflect
So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit.
How does this scripture apply to your marriage? Reflect on this when you and your spouse come together for prayer.
Lord, it is clear that we cannot think right or understand Your will without the Holy Spirit in our relationship. Empty us of selfishness so we can be filled with Your Spirit. Then teach us how to live wisely and not like fools. Amen.
Here’s an idea if you like to write notes. Get several envelopes, write “Open when...” in the return address area. Then write one of the following in the addressee area on each envelope.
Here's a few ideas to get you started!
You want to know my dreams for our future
You need a reminder of what makes you a great dad/mom
You need a reminder of why you love me
You need a reminder of why I love you
You need a hug and kiss from me
You’re feeling insecure
You need to talk to me
You’re missing me
You need a smile
I’m sad/depressed and you don’t know what to do
You need a reminder of why we’re worth fighting for
You can come up with more on your own!
- Pray for at least 5 minutes together as a couple.
- Do something to bless your spouse today.
- Share a 15-second kiss.